Parents and Teenagers

When I was young my parents told me some rules and tasks every day. I'll explain to you what my life was like:
I have always been fond of films but my parents would insist on me doing my homework first. I used to be irritated with my parents comments. For example, when I played music loud my parents would get annoyed with me and they would turn off my Cd player. I often dreamt of dancing like Madonna , Michael Jackson and Queen . Sometimes I felt embarrassed by them because they asked me about my private life .
On the other hand , My parents were proud of me because I was a good student . When I attempted to learn English my parents were very happy and my brothers started their English classes as well. However, none of us succeeded in our English classes. I used to study for two hours a day but , now I think it wasn't much time. My parents were worried about my future and now I understand them and their rules because , these were my the best directions of my life.
Today I'm a mother and in my opinion , my rules are neccesary because I want my children to be respectful, ingelligent, confident and I'm optimistic about their future choices . The problems between parents and teenagers have been present for ever, the point is how parents teach their children their knowledge. Also, parents should aim not to control everything.